Starting meetings with check-in questions is one of the most powerful tools for changing how we relate to each other. So why are check-in questions also the first new way of working that many managers want to cancel?
The check-in process is deceptively simple.You ask a question. Meeting attendees answer it, round-robin style. But *why* do we do this?
A check-in question is a ritual — a friendly, repeatable action that says, “Hey, we’re getting started.”
A check-in question democratizes our meeting space: “This is a place where everyone can speak and be heard.”
A check-in question sets expectations: “We expect everyone to speak up and take part.”
A check-in question humanizes the moment. “We care about what’s on each other’s minds.”
A check-in question focuses attention. “Let’s model the power of everyone thinking about the same thing at the same time.”
Inevitably, though, someone will say, “This takes too much time! We should be working, not chatting! Enough with the check-in questions!”
People who want to cancel the check-in question forget: our work goes more smoothly when people feel present, acknowledged, and connected.
If time becomes an issue, we can ask questions prompting one-word answers (or, on Zoom, have people answer the question simultaneously in the chat).
But: do check-in. Once we feel more connected to each other, we’ll feel more connected to the work … and get more done.
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